Fans are horrified from the scene and demand for a ‘trigger warning’ before the screening. This show did not help him at all. Darcy & Stacy Season 1 Watch Thread. Kelly isn’t perfect but she’s self-made and resilient AF for bouncing back from marriage to an actual white collar scam artist. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. She's also 35 years old, and at this point; it's likely she feels the opportunity cost of starting over with someone new is simply too high. Wildly wealthy Asian and Asian American fun seekers go all out with parties, glamour and drama in Los Angeles. However, it seems unlikely that a producer would ask another person's respective partner to yell and scream at them. Click to expand... He’s clearly gay. She may not have had time to process the trauma from her last relationship which is why andrew has gotten away with a lot of shit. His eyes were so...cold and scary. Andrew is abusive pos, guy is a crazy. Ahh okay, I’ve just finished episode two and I’m was thinking I can’t watch it if he is on it and they keep framing his abuse as “passion”. 82 25 1 Jan 16, 2021 #145 ... Facebook Twitter Reddit Pinterest Tumblr WhatsApp Email Share Link. He doesn't want her to talk about it not because it was private (he did it on TV and while she was with other people for one), but because it made him look bad and probably because the more her friends see and know the truth, the more likely it is that they stay broken up. Overly pushy. Netflix. So, Andrew is an abusive person on the show, this much is undisputed; however, in my opinion, this comes from the way he handles things and not from the reasons he does things. ... in the sense he acts like every single guy that just gets worse and worse until he loses it and then turns physically abusive. By Alyssa Ray Jan 29, 2021 12:11 AM Tags. He just said stop talking about their private issues (though, as I said before, in this instance he didn't have much of a leg to stand on, as he made it public in the first place). Since this is so fundamentally ingrained into his person, I don't really believe that calling him out on his behavior would register. He apologized for his actions immediately. It was actually embarrassing. If there was one component of Bling Empire that didn’t sit well with fans, it was the relationship between stars Kelly Mi Li and Andrew Gray. He makes my skin crawl every time I hear him speak. He’s not wealthy like her, which isn’t a dealbreaker but he has no drive. The concern has grown so great that fans on Reddit are calling to ban Andrew Gray from season 2 of Bling Empire. be kind, Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. He kept refusing to acknowledge what was wrong and eventually started re-writing his response in Paris, in ep 4 saying “I was worried” not “I was feeling abandoned/I was angry”. His lack of any other serious emotional attachments causes him to latch on to Kelly. Andrew Gray talks being a villain on Bling Empire.Pic credit:@DrBethanyMarshall/YouTube. Honestly, what did he gain from doing this show? This is the first thing I googled as soon as he came on the screen. This man is very clearly emotionally and verbally abusive, regardless of his intentions behind his behaviors (and regardless of his childhood). The Bling Empire personality also tells audiences about her first marriage, telling Distractify: "I was married before and the guy I was married to committed one of the biggest cyber scams in American history, so bringing that up is scary.". The series, which follows the lives of Asian and Asian-American socialites in Los Angeles, is the rare reality show to land a 100 percent critical rating on Rotten Tomatoes — and it's not hard to see why. Bling Empire’s Andrew Gray getting Slammed for Being ABUSIVE to GF in the Show. Twitter. TL;DR: Andrew isn't a psychopathic asshole. The little things that annoy you, every little fight. Bling Empire's Kelly and Andrew's relationship became one of the biggest talking points since the new Netflix reality TV show premiered. The viewers had a problem with the show because of the abusive and toxic nature between the couple. Honestly I hope he isn’t on season 2 because he’s not worth shit. This leads her to put up with shit she should have bailed on. He talks a huge game about having keeping the relationship private but makes it everyone’s business by yelling at her. Don't under estimate kelly - she managed to be married to a guy who is a master mind behind internet frauds, claimed she doesn't know anything about it, lost "everything" with government seizing all their fortune and husband in jail, but still rolling around in a rolls royce. Simply judging from her intro in the first episode, I actually think this is just how she is, and not really a result of Andrew's behavior. I thought he was a leech, hanging on to his meal ticket any way he could. But this dude is actually promoting the show on his own Instagram. He wasn't trying to isolate her from her friends though. Without outside distractions, there are less reasons for Andrew to feel the need to be controlling. That's not to say she should have gotten with Kevin. He’s the absolute WORST! 0. Bling Empire season 2 release date, cast, synopsis, trailer and more Kelly and Andrew began posting pictures on Instagram together in 2015. All of these relationships are toxic by default, as toxic relationships are the only ones that are entertaining to watch, for most people. My whole post was to say that Andrew, as portrayed in the show has issues and is definitely a major contributing factor to a toxic relationship environment; however, I don't believe he's actually beyond redemption if he seeks the appropriate help. "I have a tremendous amount of respect and love … It was so long ago and I felt the same fear I used to feel then. 7. 3) Kelly. Pure narcissistic behaviours. Viewers of Netflix's new reality show Bling Empire are labeling one of the show's romantic relationships as 'abusive,' accusing a star of being a … The trailer didn’t look interesting but your comments make me want to give it a try. It was very scary to watch him question her on why she told her friends about the Paris ordeal (or how they found out, i forget). It does, however, mean he should be single until he sorts his shit out. Andrew has denied accusations that he is abusive towards Kelly, placing the blame on producers. Telling Kelly not to share their relationship with her friends. Andrew is an idealist romantic that doesn't have much going for him emotionally other than his relationship with Kelly (in the show, at least). Every time he gets angry, my hubby will be like, "it's morphin' time!!!!". We use cookies on our websites for a number of purposes, including analytics and performance, functionality and advertising. This made me laugh but it is also very very true. I skipped all the scenes with him in it because I couldn’t handle the screaming and abuse and I also didn’t give a shit about their storyline. This is likely because he didn't have any proper relationship models as he was growing up and so he learned how to love through TV/Movies. This was sort of alluded to in the last episode, where she was the one to get called out for wearing fake jewelry. It was very easy to detect in the tone alone that this likely wasn't just a story arc planned by producers. Similar threads. Even if he apologizes and means it (which I think he did), he doesn't know how to begin to act differently. Unless he gets casted in a serial killer movie or a tv show like YOU. When he went out to dinner in the second episode and they joked about anal sex, he was radiating evil lol. It's also unlikely that Andrew is not driven, though perhaps he might be comfortable not pursuing further wealth (and at a worth of $15mm, it's not like he needs to keep chasing the bag if he doesn't want to). While it is sad to see Andrew and Kelly split since they had so much love for each other, we sincerely wish them all of the best. Fans on Reddit recently voted for the cast-member they liked the least on Bling Empire, and the results came pouring in like champagne at one of Christine Chiu's parties. Edit: I was actually of a similar mind to you, at first. 2) Andrew is overall needy, which leads to his abusive behavior. This is something Andrew had to deal with during his time on Bling Empire. All of that really drives home that how these people were portrayed in the show is not real. In the end, we just decided we fucked that up; and moving forward, we handle what we tell to others' a lot differently. He also clearly manipulates and gaslights her. After all, that's how you're supposed to love someone; in his eyes. There are literally zero upsides to talking to your friends about private issues in your relationship. One of those moments would be when Kelly and Anna went shopping in Paris while Andrew was sleeping, and Andrew called her, screaming at her for leaving him at the hotel and that she could not leave the hotel without him. It's actually very common as relationships progress, that the good times; which often outnumber the bad times become common place, and thus, you no longer mention them to your friends. We use cookies on our websites for a number of purposes, including analytics and performance, functionality and advertising. Clearly Kevin isn't out of touch. Suppose he wants another acting job. This girl spends like 100K in designer shopping each month. I finished the season and it doesn't get any better. If she doesn't come back, it might spark a desire to reevaluate his behavior. Its raw ingredients are meme-ready hits in the vein of Selling Sunset, stirred up with cross-cultural sensations à la Indian Matchmaker. He only puts on a show when she’s about to kick him out because he has nowhere else to live lol. If there was a recipe for a successful reality-TV series, Netflix’s Bling Empire might be the result. However, the issue is that he's stuck. The fact is he knew he was out of line but he kept refusing to apologize for it. When fans saw them interact as a couple on Bling Empire season 1, which premiered on January 15, many viewers perceived their romance as toxic, abusive, sad, and scary. Andrew is actually worth a lot more than Kelly. January 20, 2021 3:22 pm EST 0 Former power rangers star Andrew Gray is labelled “abusive” after seemingly being verbally abusive to his on-screen girlfriend in the ‘bling empire’. She could leave him and date and empty can of beer after and she would be better off. Imo, this is a reasonable request. I'm cringing so hard watching this guy. It doesn’t matter that him being needy has a justification, it doesn’t matter that the abusive behaviour has a cause, he is exhibiting abusive behaviour and nothing else matters. Fans were surprised by this association considering the rocky relationship with his own mother. Until this day, years later, she still tells me I was the best boyfriend she ever had; most thoughtful, most caring, etc. All relationships have ups and downs. I truly believe that he thinks he loves her more than anything in the world, and that he's putting in so much effort to make her happy. At a time when Los Angeles faces many struggles, Bling Empire gives the city a new life, if only vicariously. What does Andrew bring to the table? However, I don't really think it's that. News, Bling Empire stars Andrew Gray and Kelly Mi Li discussed filming the Netflix hit, online criticism and more. Kind of a scummy backstabber (talking nice in Andrew's face, while plotting to steal Kelly from him). Is Andrew from 'Bling Empire' abusive? I think you can be abusive to a partner without being a sociopath or psychopath, but I don't think the behavior should be excused. Andrew on bling empire is the definition of a gaslighting narcissistic mother fucker. While being single, of course. The hard parts of relationships do not need to be in the public domain, as this will only poison your friend groups' opinion of your SO. a community to celebrate and discuss the show which is a mix of crazy rich asians and gossip girl. It's more than that though... he is super concerning in the sense he acts like every single guy that just gets worse and worse until he loses it and then turns physically abusive. He provided a justification for his outburst, with the caveat that it was completely out of line. How much of this is actually real!?! When Netflix's Bling Empire premiered in January 2021, it became an instant hit. While most of them have wealth that goes beyond their personal wealth, being from affluent families, Kelly isn't like that. She’s better off being single for now. Telling Kelly not to share their relationship with her friends. The Bling Empire star posted a selfie with her ex in front of a peaceful beach scene to alert her fans of the news. Peeyush Das. Basically he has nothing to offer except his brand of toxic love. Kelly doesn't love herself. He was saying keep the problems private. I think it's a warped perception of what love should be, due to his upbringing. TBF I would be pretty pissed too and tryna not to look it or respond. Related: Bling Empire: Andrew Gray Calls Out Show Production For 'Manipulation' Fans tore into Gray on Reddit over comments he made while describing his relationship with Kelly Mi Li. Ugh I feel sick. There’s a group shot of Andrew and the Bling Empire cast from March 2019, but the last picture of just Kelly and Andrew together is from July 26th 2018. Andrew From Bling Empire Is Proof That Intentions Are Irrelevant If Your Partners Actions Are Abusive Our new TV obsession might be filled with wealth and drama, but a more important story is being told through Kelly and Andrew's toxic relationship. It doesn’t matter than Andrew doesn’t see his behaviour as problematic. 4 26 6 Jan 16, 2021 #143 ... Bling Empire makes the Real Housewives look like a bunch of broke bitches. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. ... Leaving an abusive relationship is not easy, but I think the online community Bling Empire has created will benefit her in the end. Does Jaime (Xie) appear often? An ex and I found ourselves in this situation where her friends couldn't stand me, and my friends couldn't stand her. I’ll try this too, I’m interested in the show but I used to be in an abusive relationship years ago and his actions and yelling gives me horrible anxiety attacks. Bling Empire is also another example of the normalization of toxic relationships on TV. TV Reality TV Exclusives Couples Netflix. Andrew from Bling Empire Manipulation. Her wealth is all personal, which actually made her the least wealthy out of all the cast members on the show. One person commented, “ Reality show producers like unbalanced and unreasonable people who bring conflict.” There is a possibility that Andrew could simply be playing a … Humans also have a negative cognitive bias, so your friends are going to dwell on those negative events, and *ESPECIALLY* if they don't often see the person you're referring to (in the case of long distance relationships, or friends that you see only every so often), they start to see your significant other only as a cause of unhappiness. To make the person feel like they are inadequate in their love, while he is always trying his hardest; this makes them feel bad and loathe to leave. Published: 18 January 2021. This is definitely a no-go; however, I don't really think it makes him an asshole. Gray said, "It's like a mother's embrace.It's real." He is not completely lacking in self awareness. I feel like Bollywood Wives was so much better and no gaslighting boyfriends. However, her friends had her thinking that I was trash that didn't give a damn about her due to sometimes having to work so much that I didn't really wanna do much else except chill at home. I hope Kelly leaves him. It's fair to not want your partner to discuss certain aspects of your relationship to an extent, but his request in this context was entirely manipulative and self-serving. "Over the past 5 and half years, Andrew and I have shared some incredible times together," she wrote. He gives me chills, every time he’s on the screen, specially during his interviews. January 21, 2021 4:40 am EST. He doesn't even see it. Everyone is acting like he's just not good enough for Kelly, but it appears way more sinister than that. People watching Bling Empire have often mentioned that Andrew is psychologically abusive towards Kelly. The reason why I think this is because I'm quite sure Andrew is unaware of the emotional cost of his actions. It got to the point where we had to choose between dropping all our friends completely, or breaking up. He’s garbage, a jobless loser because he’s got no talent. After seeing the dynamics of his relationship with Kelly, many felt that Andrew was emotionally abusive. Pinterest. Other than being slightly more needy than my tastes (but my standard of neediness is like zero, so it's probably not even feasible to meet), she was a wonderful woman. I absolutely hate him for it. This is something therapists have been doing a lot recently, tying literally EVERYTHING to childhood trauma. Proof that he doesn't think he's done anything wrong. That's kind of irrelevant because the issue is how he acts in a relationship. I believe this is actually a very valid thing to bring up. That's how he looked to me. The therapist bought up that he was making Kelly into his parents, in terms of abandonment issues. Bling Empire viewers accuse Power Rangers actor Andrew Gray of being 'abusive' to his girlfriend. Dude was trash, he's got zero game. However, you're likely to regularly share the negative parts about your relationship. So, Andrew is an abusive person on the show, this much is undisputed; however, in my opinion, this comes from the way he handles things and not from the reasons he does things. He doesn't need to drag another person along on his journey of recovery. #fuckoffandrew. He’s so manipulative it really triggered me. If Kelly was talking about positives Andrew wouldn’t care about it. Both parties need to bring something to the table for the relationship to work. Which I can agree with; however, he blew up on her publicly, so in this case, he forfeited that right. Bling Empire’s “toxic couple” Kelly Mi Li and Andrew Gray are no more. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Her youtube channel blows my mind. My friends had me thinking she was trying to restrict my freedom, when really, that's just a minor complaint that I had. More posts from the BlingEmpireNetflix community, Continue browsing in r/BlingEmpireNetflix, a community to celebrate and discuss the show which is a mix of crazy rich asians and gossip girl. So fans were surprised to learn that after the show, Kelly and Andrew were still together and thinking about getting married and starting a family. The only real impetus for change here, would be for him to permanently lose this relationship. I feel like he looks through you, I was scared for kelly. Bling Empire's Kelly Mi Li SPLITS from boyfriend Andrew Gray after fans slammed his TV tirades as 'toxic & abusive' March 9, 2021 KELLY Mi Li and her controversial boyfriend Andrew Gray have officially called it quits, after reuniting in June of 2020. Facebook. So, while I think it's overkill and a bit of an 'oof' for someone to tell you not to tell your friends about your relationship at all, that isn't what Andrew was saying. Everyone is acting like he's just not good enough for Kelly, but it appears way more sinister than that. Additionally, Kelly should ALSO be single for a while, and also go to therapy so she can learn some self love. Which is why I said he needs to be single and work on himself, as does Kelly. While Bling Empire producers don't warn viewers about Andrew's toxic behavior or mention abuse, the general consensus is that Andrew is psychologically abusive toward Kelly. Wildly wealthy Asian and Asian American fun seekers go all out with parties, glamour and drama in Los Angeles. It's also terrifying to know that he is doing all of this even while the cameras are rolling... More posts from the BlingEmpire community, The Unofficial Subreddit For The Netflix Show Bling Empire, Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you would have seen or at least heard about Bling Empire. She sees her value only insofar as others value her (at least in the show). Andrew and Kelly Mi Li in Episode 3 “What’s in Anna’s Shower?” of “Bling Empire” Season 1. The show, which follows like the glamourous lives of wealthy Asian-American elites in Los Angeles, gives a lot of air time to the turbulent relationship between the two, which many have deemed abusive. Photo: @andrewgray/Instagram It’s official: Kelly Mi Li and Andrew Gray have broken up. Andrew and Kelly Li Mi's explosive relationship was one of the main focal points of Bling Empire season one, leading viewers to wonder whether the pair are still together now. He just needs to be single for a while as he goes to therapy to relearn healthy relationship habits, as he never had a successful model. Gross. Here’s the problem, Andrew is trying to isolate her from her friends by being pissy about her talking to her friends about the relationship. I'm only about halfway through the season, but I can't imagine this gets better. Even if he were to change wholesale, in her friends' eyes, he'd always be that negative thing. Andrew joined Kelly on her birthday trip to Paris, which was hosted by Anna Shay. He doesn't even see it. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. But then I found out that Kevin was actually quite wealthy and I got to wondering about every other cast member on the show. Yess!!! Viewers thought their relationship was toxic and that Andrew’s behavior was abusive. Andrew Gray on Bling Empire Is Extremely Hard to Watch. Andrew has eluded to this, saying things like “why can’t it just be you and me,” etc. Like Kevin, they were pretending he's broke, but he's worth 15x Kelly is.
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